Every Desire Is a Chosen Unhappiness

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🗃 Resources:: The Almanack of Naval Ravikant (2020)
2026-06-10

EVERY DESIRE IS A CHOSEN UNHAPPINESS. I think the most common mistake for humanity is believing you're going to be made happy because of some external circumstance. That's not new. It's fundamental Buddhist wisdom — I'm not taking credit for it.

Looking outside yourself for anything is the fundamental delusion. You should self-actualize. You should do what you are meant to do.

Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want. I don't think most of us realize that's what it is. I like to stay aware of it, because then I can choose my desires very carefully. I try not to have more than one big desire in my life at any given time, and I also recognize it as the axis of my suffering.

One thing I've learned recently: it's way more important to perfect your desires than to try to do something you don't 100 percent desire.